No country for women
No
country for women
The news reporting
said- “Another rape and murder of an innocent girl plunged the City of Joy into
shame and sorrow”. The word: “Another” gave me pause. The horror of “Another
rape and murder” sobered the ever so vibrant Newtown area. Because, deep down
we know it's just 'another’— until a new ‘another’ comes along and we forget
about the justice we wanted last time. We get accustomed to ‘Delayed’ and
‘Denied’ Justice. It’s a reflection of the grim reality we have come to terms with—
a desensitization to tragedy.
Henceforth we know the
story. At least no news media can be accused of compromising on the runtime to
cover the heinous rape and murder of the 14-year-old. How she had a fight with
her mother and sister, and she left home. After several hours of wandering
alone in the streets, she asked a Rickshaw driver for help, in good faith. To
which he assured her safe return to home, and picked her up in his rickshaw.
The driver then drove around with her, before taking her to an isolated
location to assume the role of a predator.
It is striking how
easily one can abandon humanity and morals these days. The powerful have always
preyed on the vulnerable, not only because it’s easy but also because it
provides a false sense of control over someone else's fate. In a society marked
by vast disparities in wealth, power, and lifestyle, individual lives seem
insignificant, trivial. People, who are often caught in the relentless grind of
this reality, in an attempt to assert control, they resort to violence against
those who are less fortunate. Too often, these victims are women - of all ages.
For them, vulnerability is twofold - threatened both in their lives and their
dignity. A patriarchal society creates a false idea of hierarchy, a prey to
which is not only women, but young men. When the notion of inequality is
deep-rooted, it becomes habitual. We don’t actively notice the misconducts and
partiality towards women, but our incognizant mind takes note- men are superior
just by the sheer virtue of being born as such.
What is the
answer, then? How can we defend ourselves against the inevitable attacks and
harassment? The
solution lies in reshaping the very foundations of our society. To truly
protect women, we must foster an environment where respect and equality are not
just ideals but realities. Only in such society violence against women is not
just condemned, but can be actively prevented. In the rat race of life, where
earning big bucks is the a-priory condition for receiving respect, we need to
educate our next generation about consent, empathy, and inherent dignity of all
human beings. Most importantly, it is about changing the collective mindset,
and that includes the mindsets of women as well. We need to change the
narrative that women are somehow lesser. Empowering women means recognizing
their strength and potential, and seeing them as equals in every sense. As
Tagore wisely said, "Why should women not have the right to conquer their
own destiny?" In this ongoing fight against deep-rooted indifference and
the normalization of violence, women must stand as the first and fiercest
warriors—reclaiming their dignity and demanding the respect they deserve.
Dr. Madhura
Asst. Professor
Techno India University, West Bengal
www.technoindiauniversity.ac.in
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