Assimilating Social Media into the Everyday Life: Normalising the Abnormal
Assimilating Social Media
into the Everyday Life: Normalising the Abnormal
For a
considerable period of time, there has been an unrivalled debate about the
essentially disastrous effect that social media has had on young people,
especially students from school to college. Parents, doctors and almost every
member of society think it to be an absolute evil that has been constructed to
only mar young people on a disparaging path. But almost more than a decade
after the coming of social media platforms like Facebook, Instagram, Twitter,
Telegram or even Snapchat, it is time that we review our thoughts towards these
platforms and move towards a healthier way of including these platforms in our
daily activities, rather than completely shunning them away or creating such an
environment whereby the respective pupil still uses it, but in a way that
requires them to hide their activity behind strict parental eyes. There is no
doubt that social media platforms have often become a ripe ground for every
kind of questionable act - from trolling mercilessly behind fake accounts to
creating judgemental remarks or creating trial courts. But the mass opinion
cannot often be guaranteed as the right one or a form of judicious judgement
aimed at securing a better or safer future. Often remarks are instigated by an
overdose of excitement, impulse and passion. Moreover, there are contents
floating in social media that can be cited as poor, base, low or even
pornographic in nature. Hence the question arises as to whether such content
should be made easily available to young, impressionable minds or whether these
little heads do have wisdom enough in them to actually know what is good for
them or not! One cannot just be a Romantic and leave everything to the Great
Unknown. Hence the hullabaloo over social media as an absolute evil on the
minds of children.
But a good amount of thought
needs to be given to how parents should also learn to assimilate what they have
so long termed as the absolute evil as a normal but balanced part of their
child's life. Let us consider the multiple benefits even though quick, and
short-term, as they may be of social media, for many kids, social media
pictures and posts have become an alternative source or form of their
autobiography-one can almost say that it replaces the age-old Anne Frank’s
diary. Moreover, social media has allowed even teenagers to start their small
start-up companies, whether that be selling paintings, handicrafts, baking
items, or even indigenous jewellery. By cutting away the middleman, rent for
shop places it has allowed the youngster to commercialise their creative
output. Moreover, the idea about content is that it allows the young
impressionable minds the choice to select -herein comes the parental
educational outlook in the modern world. Rather than completely negating it as
an absolute evil, it would be more beneficial if parents teach their kids the
differentiation between what is poor, base or lowly content to what content
gives them food for thought. Parents should also be able to regulate social
media as a timebound affair-just like kids or they themselves would play for an
hour and a half during the evening to relax, similarly Facebook, Instagram,
Twitter, Telegram or Snapchat should be similar spaces of entertainment but for
a stipulated time of the day. In this way rather than demonising a platform,
which in one way or the other would gain upon the pupil, parents would be able
to regulate in proper measure the usage of these platforms through thoughtful
and careful teachings from a very early age.
Thus, sweets should be enjoyed but in a manner that they do not cause either
cavities in the teeth or result in sugar or diabetes!
Dr. Arunava Chaudhuri
Assistant Professor,
Techno India University, West Bengal
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